About Baby

Our first Christmas together 2006


The tree in our hotel lobby

I love the simply way it is decorated
We actually went to the movies on Christmas day. Muvico is the best. Notice the shorts? That's Florida for you.


Next month we will be celebrating our 2nd anniversary, and it has only been since March of this year that we have been living in our own place. I was really looking forward to decorating our house for the holidays this year and building our own family traditions. We were married the day after Thanksgiving 06, he was deployed Thanksgiving 07, and Thanksgiving 08 I will be eight months pregnant. Yes, it would be possible to go all out for Thanksgiving for the two of us. But that really does not sound enjoyable or sensible to this very pregnant one. Going back home to be with family would be an option but just not a wise one being so close to my due date. So, instead of starting our own tradition or going back home to the traditions of our families (who are by the way spending Thanksgiving together without us) we are doing something completely different but really great. We will be spending it with our church family.

Our first Christmas together 06 was spent all by ourselves in sunny Florida honeymooning. It was absolutely great but certainly did not feel like Christmas. We actually went to the movies that day and ordered room service. Our second Christmas 07 was spent completely apart on opposite sides of the world as he was deployed. I was really looking forward to finally starting our own traditions, decking the halls, listening to the best of Christmas music, and actually taking an overly cute picture this year to send to family. And then along came baby... She is due the 10th of December, yet she could easily be late a week or more. Do I really have the energy to decorate? and do I really want to spend the money on that when she is coming? My imagery of the day has turned from a made up woman in a red dress with curled hair dishing out pieces of pie to a brand new mother recovering a week after delivery just wishing for the five minutes and the strength to take a shower.

All of this uncertainty has drawn me back to the reason for the season- a BABY! Christmas is truly about God humbling Himself to be made into a helpless baby to save His people from their sins. and This Christmas as I take care of my own baby- I will not be able to forget why we celebrate this holiday and how amazing it is that God would choose to become such a helpless, messy and fragile being.

This Christmas might not have the sounds, sights, and smells of a traditional Christmas, but what better tradition could there be than having a new baby just in time for Christmas?!

Getting Ready for Baby

The Nursery- Thank you to so many of you for all the wonderful gifts. Anyone want to help put away, clean, and organize???


As it is this moment. I am not sure if we are leaving the crib in that spot and the chest and dresser are still missing from the room.

The crib from this

To this- Thankfully we did not have to put it together ourselves, and yes it is time to move the diplomas.

The closet- with games, uniforms, and weights

After hard lifting- not on my part. Can you see the indentations on the carpet?

To our sweet daughter's closet. I still need to vacuum it, and most of the items in there will be finding more permanent spaces someday.

This past week I have been making progress with the nursery. I am no where near finished, yet I am thankful for all the work I got done this week and hope that next is also a productive week.

In My 30's

30 Weeks




I am now past the 30 week mark and love being so close to seeing our baby girl. Last month the nursery furniture came, and last week we put together the cradle. It seems like I am taking the tiniest steps towards getting everything together and in its place, but we will get it all together eventually.

Finally the Beach

From last year

Yesterday N and I went to the beach together for the first time this summer- well rather this year because we are now in autumn. How odd is that especially considering how close we live to a popular beach destination. I think that well sums up how this summer has barely felt like summer to me. I suppose with being sick, then going to Europe for a couple of weeks, traveling back home, and nesting for baby- life simply got in the way of summer. I was really glad we finally went yesterday. The weather was beautiful with clear skies, lower 80’s, and no wind. So there we were lounging on our large towel reading with one of us resisting the great urge to lie on her back surrounded by several retired couples. It was lovely, and we learned that those who go to the beach after the season are rewarded with free parking :)

Church Baby Shower

I felt so loved to be showered with love, support, and gifts by our new church family. It was a dual bridal/baby shower- actually my idea, and I loved the way it turned out. Thank you all so very much!

First Baby Shower

Decorating in Action

Yummy Cake... I want another piece

My Sister-in-Law

I just love handmade gifts.

Last week, I traveled back home for my baby shower thrown by my mother. I had a really fun time decorating with a dear friend beforehand and enjoyed seeing so many friends during the shower. Thank you so much for all who came to support us and gave us such lovely presents.

26 Weeks

Do I look 6 months pregnant?


I think so











N and I just joined a local gym. Because of the morning sickness, I was barely able to eat or be on the move much for months and as a result lost weight and lots of muscle. I had become so weak that it was scaring me. When it comes to exercise, I have always been the one to happily exercise along with a DVD in my own home. I have never made a concerted effort to exercise at a gym even when I had the opportunity at college for free. I knew that DVDs were there if I needed them, but to me getting in shape was more important than ever because my daughter’s health is now involved in what I do and because I was so drastically out of shape. So, we joined a gym just as the countdown to baby neared 100 days. The best part is doing it together- as a family of three :) It really seems like going out for a date when we are off to the gym. I love being able to do the cardio machines at all different levels but still be able to be right next to each other. I am especially enjoying this time together because when baby comes we will not be able to go together. We also finally took the time to take some belly pictures. I hope you enjoy and that we keep up with them.

Growing More than Just My Belly

Neither N nor I have ever been devoted gardeners, yet growing plants really does bring me joy. So this first summer of ours in our own place, I really wanted to grow something. Growing tomatoes came more naturally than other plants because both of our families grew tomatoes, and I LOVE them so. We bought three small plants. Two of which grew cherry tomatoes and the other grew another small variety. I was not sure if they would ever bear fruit because we were growing them on our small balcony which never gets direct sunlight. My goal was not to amass a bountiful crop but simply to be a gardener. Our three little tomato plants were far more helpful to me those first three months of pregnancy than I ever had anticipated. For at least 5 minutes out of the day I was forced to feel well- well enough to care for them. Care for them I did- not perfectly at all yet they grew. Their scent was very helpful to me. Everyone speaks of the wonders of mint, yet I was also growing mint but it was the scent of the tomato plants that calmed me. I am curious if a healing property was in the scent of it or if the memory of the scent was what I found healing. I knew I would be going away to Europe for three weeks, and I was disappointed at the thought of their producing fruit without my being there to share in it with them. I eagerly looked for my first tomato before I left, and I found the tiniest green tomato perhaps a millimeter wide engulfed in its yellow flower. I was delight to have caught sight of the first fruit. By the end of the season I was quite surprised with how much fruit could grow from such a small pot getting next to none direct sunlight. And I also remembered that I really do not care for the taste of cherry tomatoes. At most I personally ate a dozen, yet I had completed the task I set out for myself- to garden.

Preparing for Our Daughter

A few of my favorite white dresses

Adorable also comes in other colors
A picture of our crib to be
My "dress" diaper bag thanks to my mom

Stroller

Car seat

The last few weeks have been filled with the busy excitement of preparing for our little girl. It has been such a joy preparing for this little one while also thinking upon the future with the many more we will hopefully be blessed with, Lord willing. From the moment I saw a friend's nursery set, I simply feel in love with it. I didn't think we could get it, but we could! I am so delighted with it!!! It will be here in a few more weeks, and I am very eager. Our nursery theme is white. Are you surprised?? Everything from the furniture to the walls to the bedding to the curtains will be white accented with silver and crystal accessories. Most of the travel gear I am going with will be black such as the stroller, car seat, carrier, and diaper bag- so that it will be neutral for both of us using it and easily coordinated together, and they will work with future children. My favorite color of baby clothing is white. I also really like nautical themed dresses.

It's a Girl!!!

Me and My Daughter


When we found out that our little one was a girl, we were very surprised. I just thought it would be a boy. She has come a little earlier in the birth order than I expected, yet at least we can start with all the girlish fun asap. I have had a blast shopping for the most adorable little girl dresses. My favorite color to dress her in is white. With all the pretty dresses out there, it would be very difficult to only dress her one color, but her wardrobe so far is about 50% white.

Our Little Kicker at 20 Weeks 5 Days

Profile


Profile and Foot


Arm and Leg



This week I went for my official twenty week ultrasound. It went really smoothly (all the measurements were normal) and was the best time I have had in a while. Thankfully my tech was super sweet and knowledgeable. I really did not want to leave and was extremely grateful that it went so well. Now that we know the baby's sex, the best part is calling it by its proper name among the two of us anyway. Now when N calls he sends his love to the two of us by our names, and it really is so very precious in my ears. Next week, I am hoping to get through a lot of work on the registry. This past week we bought a few big items that could not go on the registry. Even though we know what I am carrying, it is still important for those big items and little ones too to be neutral for the next babies to come. It is difficult because so much of what is out there is sex specific, and I feel as if I am going against the grain in the attempt to be neutral. Staying away from pure blue or pink is not just for practicality but also goes with my personal taste as well. My favorite baby color is white, and if I had my way I would dress baby in nearly all white.

Our Precious Little One

19weeks 5 days

This past week, I first saw the baby and heard the heartbeat! This mini ultrasound was to confirm its due date, and thankfully it was right on with what we already thought. Next week, I will be going for the official 20 week ultrasound at which we will hopefully find out its sex. We are very confident on the names so far at least the first names but just not saying yet in case we change our minds at the last second. I just started the whole registry process. It is surely overwhelming. I went to the store, signed up, and just started looking around. To actually add items to the list was more than I could handle. Thankfully, you can also do it online which will be really helpful.

Back Home

Ireland








England

This past month I had the chance to travel to Europe with my mother, aunt, grandmother and little one. It was my first time off this continent. Although England and Scotland were completely interesting in their own rights, Ireland was my favorite country. It was simply amazingly beautiful. The sights of endless rolling green hills, bubbling streams, and knightly forests were a feast for these eyes usually surrounded by the suburbia of VA. This experience was amazing, yet I am really thankful to be back home.

So Proud of My Officer and Gentleman

Before

Pinning

After



This past month N passed his Surface Warfare Officer board, and I had the pleasure of pinning his SWO pin on him during the ceremony. I was extremely delighted to be able to pin him because supporting him in all that he does is so very important to me and because I also pinned him during his commissioning. I remember the day he went for his first nrotc interview in 2001, the day he graduated from o-week in 2002, the day he signed his commitment papers in 2003, all 10 Navy balls, and his commissioning. Now this day too with be remembered as a very important day in his Navy carer.

And Baby Makes Three

N and I found out in April that we were expecting!! We are delightfully excited!!! The due date is 12.10.08, and I am presently 16 weeks. The last few months have been very difficult due to the morning sickness and fatigue. I quickly realized that being a mother is definitely a 24-7 job, and It certainly starts long before you get the joy of holding your babe in your arms.